Kink Demos
Blue Max collaborates with local LGBTQ+ bars in St. Louis multiple times a year to present live demonstrations, interactive sessions, and learning opportunities in a safe, welcoming space. Join us and experience the vibrant, inclusive Blue Max Cycle Club community. Whether you’re a seasoned enthusiast or simply curious, there’s something for everyone!
Flogging
Flogging started as a form of corporal punishment, but flogging for sexual pleasure is more than inflicting pain. Sensations from flogging are either a sting or thud. The stinging sensation is felt on the surface of the skin and can be gentle or prominent depending on the flogger and speed. The thud effect is more intense and felt deeper, almost as if being pushed. The thicker the flogger tails, the more thuddy sensation. Floggers can be made out of various materials, but most use leather.
Rope Bondage
Rope Bondage is being physically restrained via rope. The caster, person doing the rope work, is typically the dominant role who might feel exhilaration and control. The receiver is usually submitting to the caster and might feel restricted, enhanced physical sensations, and able to let go emotionally and physically. Both often feel emotionally connected to one another.
Hot Wax
Hot Wax is a form of temperature play. Paraffin candles/ wax is used due to lower melting point. When dripped on skin, the hot wax produces a brief burning sensation. The hot wax is typically followed by ice water to cool the wax down faster and for added temperature sensations.
Violet Wand
Violet Wand works by generating a high voltage, low amperage charge which simulates static electricity at high levels similar to a Tesla coil. The wand will spark when it arcs to the skin and produces a distinctive smell given off by the production of ozone gas. Violet Wands can provide an incredible range of sensations, from lush tingles to sharp shocks to simulating the feelings of burning and cutting.
Spanking
Spanking in the context of BDSM is a form of consensual impact play where one person delivers controlled strikes—usually to the buttocks—for physical sensation, emotional intensity, erotic energy, or to explore power dynamics like dominance and submission. People enjoy it for many reasons, including the rush of endorphins it creates, the psychological excitement of power exchange, stress relief, and the deep trust it can build between partners.
At its core, healthy spanking is about clear consent, communication, and safety. Partners negotiate limits in advance, use safe words, and check in with each other during and after play. Aftercare—such as reassurance, hydration, and physical or emotional comfort—is an important part of the experience and helps both people feel grounded and supported. When practiced responsibly, spanking is meant to be a mutually enjoyable, intentional, and safe expression of kink, not punishment or harm.